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What was the biggest culture daze for your family when you starting time moved to France from North America?

How long children sat at the table, how well behaved the children were at the table, how easily and cheerfully they tried new foods, and how long they could wait betwixt meals—without complaint. Basically, they ate like French adults – even the preschoolers.

How did your children's school lunches differ later the move?

French schoolhouse lunches are simply astonishing. The French have decided that teaching healthy eating routines to children is a priority, and they teach children about healthy food in the classroom and the lunchroom.

Starting when children enter school at historic period three, school tiffin consists of four courses: a vegetable starter (for case, grated carrot salad, or beet salad), a warm primary course served with a side of grains or vegetables, cheese, and dessert.

Fresh baguette, eaten plainly, is also served. The kids drink water (in that location are no other drinks of any kind available at lunch, and there is a national ban on vending machines and junk food in all French schools). Dessert is usually fresh fruit, merely a sweet treat is frequently served one time a week.

There is but i choice on the carte, and nutrient is served to children at the table until they are finished primary school (at 12 years old). This may be why the identify where dejeuner is eaten is chosen a 'restaurant scolaire' (school restaurant). High-school students typically get two choices for each course and often eat in a 'self' (meaning a self-serve deli), although many French parents are ambivalent about this self-service model (preferring the idea of a eating house).

The French Ministry of National Education sets a minimum time requirement for children to sit at the tabular array: 30 minutes. This is in order to allow them swallow their food sufficiently slowly and properly. Talk almost 'tiresome nutrient' training!

What were your children'southward biggest challenges with adjusting to the French way of eating?

The elimination of random snacking was a big challenge. They were used to asking for, and getting, food when they wanted information technology. Just when I realised this was reducing their ambition (so they ate less at mealtimes), I decided that random snacking had to go. Nosotros scheduled 1 snack per day (after schoolhouse) and I made certain it was really healthy and tasty. After a week or two they settled into the new rhythm and have completely stopped asking for random snacks.

How long did information technology accept to see a alter in your children's eating habits?

It took well-nigh two weeks for my younger daughter (a toddler) and a calendar month (or two) for my older daughter. In general, the younger the child, the more than quickly you'll run into a change. But it is never too late.

What do y'all retrieve is the best way to remove stress and frustration from the tabular array when it comes to feeding children?

Shed your guilt, and reduce the pressure. Information technology sounds counter-intuitive, but less pressure level and fuss, combined with the correct routines and positive attitude to food, will lead to more success.

What were your biggest challenges when moving back to North America?

Fast food culture and an attitude that 'food is fuel'. We have made a choice to effort to keep eating like the French. This ways a sit-down family dinner every night (usually with 2 courses, if non three). We work after-schoolhouse schedules around this, to brand sure that we can manage to have a family dinner every evening.

This is not like shooting fish in a barrel given that my husband and I both work total fourth dimension and accept no aid at home. And so it requires a niggling organization and planning; for example, I make (and freeze) soups or stews on the weekend, and thaw them during the week. Slow cookers are besides great. The point is that I don't spend a lot of time in the kitchen cooking, and choose quick-to-set up dishes that are good for you yet like shooting fish in a barrel to make. I would estimate that I spend xv minutes (hands-on) preparing the evening meal; things may have a little longer to bake in the oven, but during this time I'll be helping the kids with homework or doing housework.

What's a typical day's nutrition for your children now?

Yesterday'southward menu was:

Breakfast (7:xxx am)

• Oatmeal (Steel cut oats) with blueberries, flax oil, and maple syrup
• Scrambled eggs
• Fresh fruit
• Organic apple juice

Lunch (Noon)

(the girls take a packed lunch as there is no tiffin service at their school, which is typical in Canadian schools)

• Carrot soup (I make this in advance, and thaw and estrus, putting it in Thermoses in the morning)
• Whole grain bread and butter ham sandwich
• Apple tree slices

Snack

• Milk
• Fresh fruit and veggie plate (carrots, kiwi, oranges)

Dinner Served with fresh baguette and h2o – and a glass of red wine for the adults!

• 1^st course: avocado, blood-red tomatoes and vinaigrette Takes 2 minutes to prepare – I piece the avocadoes in half, remove the pit, drizzle the vinaigrette in the little hole…
• Main class: Winter stew (which has cubes of ham, cabbage, onion, chard, kale, carrots, celery) A family favorite. Made on the weekend, thawed during the twenty-four hours, takes only v minutes to heat up in the evening
• Salad course: Dark-green leaf lettuce & cheese (Roquefort and Boursin) (My hubby and I love Roquefort, as does our younger girl – the Boursin is for the older one!)
• Pudding: Stewed peaches (we freeze them at the end of the summer; I pop them into a saucepan with a chip of water at the showtime of dinner, and they slowly stew while nosotros're eating dinner)

What are your top five tips for dealing with fussy eaters?

1. Don't label your kid as a 'picky eater.' The French believe that gustation is a skill that can be acquired (and should be taught), much similar reading. In other words, picky eating isn't (barring medical bug) innate, but rather learned. They believe that children can learn to eat, and like, all kinds of food. And this is what they tell their children! Try telling your children: "You'll like that when you're a bit more than grown upward." Expect kids to develop a wider palate and somewhen they will (particularly if yous model this yourself!). The French know this takes years, and then be patient!

ii. Ask children to taste everything you've prepared, even if they don't eat information technology. Scientific research shows that children demand to taste a new food, on average, anywhere from seven to 12 times earlier they volition accept to swallow information technology. Looking at it isn't enough — they have to taste information technology! Positive peer pressure (particularly from other children who like the foods you're introducing) likewise works wonders.

3. Introduce your kid to new foods before you serve them. For example, show your child a raw beet, let them touch on information technology, and odor information technology. Cut information technology open up, and allow them look at the intense colour. When a kid says "I don't like that food", they often mean "I don't know it." The above exercise helps increase familiarity, and thus acceptance.

iv. Talk less about wellness, and more about skilful tastes. In French republic, parents don't cajole with nutritional information (such every bit explanations that a nutrient has a lot of iron or calcium). Parents say: "Taste this, it's really yummy", rather than "Eat this: it's good for you." They believe (and tell their children), that expert-for-you foods taste skilful. Healthy eating habits are a happy byproduct.

5. Stick with a schedule (and limit snacks to one–or at nearly 2–per solar day). French children have three meals a day, and 1 snack (yes, even the teenage boys): breakfast, lunch, goûter (late-afternoon snack) and dinner. Snacking is forbidden at school (no vending machines, and no fast nutrient either), and parents wouldn't dream of putting their kids in activities during the dinner hour (ix out of x French families eats a sit down-downwards dinner together every night). Children are hungrier at mealtimes, and tend to consume improve; serve energy-dense foods, and they won't feel hungry until their next mealtime.

Karen Le Billon is author of the blog karenlebillon.com, she is also the writer of the book French Children Consume Everything which is a memoir, recipe book and how-to hand volume on feeding children.

What's your experience of feeding children? We'd dear to hear your opinions.

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Source: https://www.bbcgoodfood.com/howto/guide/karen-le-billion-french-children-eat-anything

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